According to Dr. Nader. Dr. zuin's point of view in communication, the first four minutes of contact between strangers are crucial.

In his book, he said to friends who had established a new friendship: "when you meet strangers in social situations, you should focus on him for four minutes.

Many people's lives will change accordingly.

You can notice that most people do not concentrate their attention on the people they have just met. He keeps looking around and seems to be looking for more interesting people.

If anyone treats you like this, you will not like him.

When we are introduced to new friends, the author says we should try to be friendly and confident.

"Generally speaking," he said, "people like to love their own people."

Besides, we should not let others think that we are very conceited. It is very important to show interest or sympathy to others.

Know that others also have their own needs, fears and hopes.

By listening to the above advice, you may say, I am not a person who is friendly or confident in nature. Is it not honest?

Experts believe that if you practice several times, you will change your way of socializing.

As long as we want to change our character, we will eventually get used to it. It's like buying a new car. You may not feel familiar at first, but it is always better than the old one.

Is it a dishonest behavior to show friendliness or self confidence in a person who is not friendly and self-supporting?

Perhaps, "complete honesty" is not always appropriate for social relationships, especially in the first few minutes of contact, but there may be various manifestations, but proper performance is the best way to communicate with strangers.

This is not a time to complain about your health problems or find other people's shortcomings. This is not the time to put your views and impression together.

The same applies to family members or friends, and to husbands and wives, parents and children, problems often occur in the first four minutes after their long periods.

Experts suggest that these minutes should be taken care of. If you discuss unpleasant things, you need to solve them later.