If you are communicating with children in kindergarten, you have to coax him, tease him, make him happy, and establish a trust, then he will take the initiative to communicate with you.

If you communicate with primary school students, you'd better find a topic that students generally care about. You can start from school, such as talking about their teachers, their games, so that you can start the topic slowly.

If you communicate with middle school students, you need to listen to what they say first. Sometimes they care about something different from what you think. After understanding some of their views and attitudes, you can communicate with them accordingly.

If it is to communicate with university students, college students are concerned about some popular issues and topics at the same time, as well as their future employment and future directions.

If they communicate with married workers, they are more concerned about their families, work and life.

Generally speaking, if you communicate with people who are younger than you, you should speak a little bit more initiative. If you communicate with people who are older than you, you should listen to others' opinions and opinions after you draw up the topic. First of all, you should ask for advice more. On the one hand, you should show respect for others. On the other hand, you can refer to some of your predecessors' opinions.

In addition, the communication with women and the men are different, women love to say that some topics are more relaxed, most of the men like to talk about the current facts and other popular topics.

Of course, everyone and everyone's personality are different. Specific problems need to be analyzed concretely. The most important thing is to respect each other when communicating with others.