A psychologist once said, "in the world of knowledge, what we most need to learn is how to see others." As the saying goes, "go out and look at the sky. It can be said that every person who has good interpersonal relationships, every good at controlling people is good at looking at colors, being good at perceiving other people's body language and making effective responses.
　　
A reporter went to a football team to interview. When he entered the room, he found that the atmosphere in the lounge was dull, the coach was blue faced and his eyes were wide open. The players were drooping their heads and being depressed. He hurried back and cancelled the interview. Later, he heard that the team had just been defeated in the match and was being angry. If he had not been interested in hard interviews at that time, he would not only have gained nothing, but would also be criticized.
　　
His wife was angry at the unit, and although he tried to restrain himself, he was unhappy at home. The husband only noticed that his wife seemed a little different from usual, but did not go deep into it. As a result, when he and his wife talked about one thing and disagreed, when they did not say a few words, the two men quarreled.
　　
The child was criticized at school, but he was not wrong. He was full of anger. When he saw him and asked him what had happened, he began to teach: "look at your listless look. What is it like? When I was your age... " The more annoyed the child is, the more explosive the brain will be. So even he could not explain why he threw his schoolbag on the floor, shouting, "I am bored to death!" The father thought that the child was so aggressive that the grown-ups were okay. He slapped them in the face and ran away. If the father is good at looking at the colors and finding the child's facial expression is different from the past, using appeasing and loving methods and careful guidance, not only will the child run away, the father child relationship will deteriorate, but also the child will be comforted by the heart to deepen the feelings of the father and son.