At this time, people regard others as their "villains", but they become "villains" in others' eyes.

In any case, if we always think that the plight of life is not our own fault, but others add to ourselves, it will be very unhappy and full of powerlessness.

Because often unable to solve the current predicament, they naturally can not exert their potential, so that they have to live a life of their own will.

Because as long as people are stuck by emotion, it is difficult to use their wisdom correctly to see clearly any problems.

But although we can not see the crux of the problem, in order to survive, we have to find justification for ourselves and justify our actions with rationalized excuses.

Such people live in "self defense" and live in hostility and dissatisfaction.

Therefore, it is always hard to tolerate other people's weaknesses, so it is easy to become self righteous characters and create imperfect interpersonal relationships.

Recommendation: "if you can truly experience your inner reality, know yourself well and face yourself honestly, you will feel no sense of helplessness or blame others. Facing yourself is the source of your sense of security.

When we feel the sense of security in life, we have the ability to appreciate and understand the differences of others.

There is no need to get a sense of security by controlling others.

Instead, we can communicate with others in a tolerant and joyful way, and be more capable of helping others and becoming other people's best people.