Let's talk. Propriety In addition to improving oneself Cultural accomplishment and ideological cultivation Besides, we must pay attention to the following points.

First, recognize your identity when speaking. Anyone who speaks on any occasion has his own specific identity. This identity is also the role of oneself at that time. For example, in your own family, for your children, you are a father or a mother. For your parents, you are a son or a daughter again. It is inappropriate to talk to the elders or elders if you use the tone of speaking to a child, because it is impolite and has lost points.

Second, speak as objective as possible. The objective here is to respect facts. The fact is how it should be, and it should reflect the objective reality in a realistic way. Some people like to conjecture and make believe, which often leads to bad things. Of course, objectively reflecting the reality, we should also pay attention to the way of expression according to the occasion and object.

Third, we must have good intentions in speaking. Good will is good for others. The purpose of speaking is to let the other person understand his thoughts and feelings. As the saying goes, good words are three winter days. In interpersonal communication, if you grasp this sense of propriety, you will master the true meaning of polite speech.