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Blushing heart

A 24 year old department store buyer said: "once, I won a brand agency for the company. When I met with the marketing department, the vice president personally hosted it."

It was a great opportunity to show talent, but little rose was red faced and stammered.

"At that time, I should concentrate my mind on public affairs instead of blushing my blushes. That would be very smooth. How could I lose my confidence?"

After that, her boss reduced her chances of meeting with senior officials, making her talented and not appreciated by the top.

So if you feel like you're going to blush, don't put it in your heart, don't think about it, concentrate on the work at hand, "Frank said." otherwise your future will be over.

Wash your face with tears

At work, tears flow into a river, and the future often goes to the East. When you are in front of your boss, you can't face the pressure because of your tears in your work.

Crying not only makes you look weak and self-control is bad, but the company will also consider that if you cry again when facing customers, the company's image will also be damaged.

So if you want to be successful, you have to learn to control your emotions and not change your mind. One way of training is to divide yourself into two people.

"When you change your suit in the morning, ready to go to work, imagine that you have changed a person at the same time. This person is professional and calm.

With more practice, confidence can be improved.

Katie, a financial analyst at a bank, said: "whenever my boss criticizes my performance, I will burst into the toilet and tear down, and conclude that he must not like me and deliberately challenge me."

Later, a friend pointed out her faults.

"I put too much personal feeling into my work, so I was very emotional, so I drew a clear line between my work and my private life.

Criticism of work is no longer regarded as personal attack.

I am much happier now, and because I have become steady, I have been promoted a few months ago.

Of course, it is not easy to build a diamond helmet in a short time. If you are in a meeting, your eyes will still be unable to bear red, do not need to try to explain, apologize or make excuses.

The best thing to do is to pause, take a deep breath, count your heart for 5 times, and then talk about business as if nothing happened.