Self confidence is the spiritual pillar of life and the inner driving force of people's behavior.

Self confidence is valuable, but it should not be stubborn because of overconfidence in yourself. If self confidence is a major advantage in interpersonal communication, stubbornness is a resistance to normal interpersonal communication.

Stubborn people tend to be opinionated, unable to listen to others' opinions, just want others to accept their own views. At the same time, there will be a blind self worship mentality, thinking that they are superior to others everywhere and consciously or unconsciously override others.

Stubbornness can become an obstacle to human interaction, because it can not evaluate oneself by reason, nor can it objectively and impartially evaluate others, so as to win the understanding and trust of others. As always imposing its own views on others, it is bound to cause other people's psychological aversion, resulting in a psychological confrontation between them. Because of stubbornness, it is inevitable that there will be disputes with others, thus affecting the exchange of ideas and harmony with people. Too stubborn will not be able to connect with people, which will lead you to be isolated and helpless.

Obviously, we should not lose self-confidence or be too stubborn in interpersonal communication. In fact, self-confidence and stubbornness are very close, but after all, there are essential differences. Confident people not only dare to express their views, but also accept others' criticisms, advice and suggestions.