A fish named guppy shows a stronger sense of competition for other male females than females. This trait is very similar to that of women when choosing a mate.

When women choose their spouses, they pay too much attention to other views of the same sex. They have no opinions and lack judgment. In psychology, they call it "herd mentality".

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Psychological experts believe that most of the reasons for this phenomenon are mindset.

In our life, it is easy to have fixed thinking because of experience accumulation.

Secondly, for the determination of male attractiveness, women do not always rely on facts and rely more on their peers' reactions to trust their peers.

Therefore, they are more likely to follow the crowd in behavior.

Many conformist women have accepted the judgement of their peers, and have been consistent in their behaviors and opinions.

In fact, it is not only in the choice of spouses, in the workplace, this is also very common.

So it is often seen that some people in the workplace are never short of friends in the office. They are always together. Some people are not friends, and they do not like him.

In fact, many people did not really contact him. They just didn't see him when they saw their close friends didn't play with him.

No matter whether you are friends or mate, don't learn others to learn sheep, do yourself, contact others with your eyes and heart, and communicate sincerely.

This will naturally find many people's advantages and make many real friends.