Case notes

Do you like to eat alone?

At a senior executive. workshop As I mentioned, introverts prefer to read newspapers during breakfast, and do not want to make unnecessary greetings. At this time, extroverted Robert asked me, "why is introverted David sitting with me today at breakfast?"

I asked David to explain. He smiled and said, "I think I should do that. Actually, I do not really want to take the initiative to sit with others. I didn't mean to offend you, Robert, but I advised myself that the purpose of attending the seminar is to improve the level of communication and communication with me, so I forced myself to sit with you. Hearing the sincere explanation of David, everyone burst into laughter.

I continued to ask, "Why are extroverts sitting with a person who has just known one day?" extroverted trainees quickly raised their hands, and two or three of them even couldn't wait to shout out their answers. "We like to be with others. Conversation Who would like to eat alone? "

extreme Introvert

In extreme introverts, we can see more introverted features, which are not obvious in mild introverts. Similarly, if we want to know more about extrovert, we should observe extreme extroverts.

Therefore, this book will focus on those introverts with obvious disposition. I believe that when we turn the focus to the obvious examples, the differences and differences that we want to know will come out easily. In addition, the character of dual personality is discussed in this book. The so-called dual personality is characterized by both outward and introverted features. The social skills mentioned in this book are also very practical for them.

While reading this book, please bear in mind the results of your personality assessment in this chapter. If your personality preferences score is higher, you will find that the social examples listed in this book are familiar. Similarly, readers who are not well informed can see more or less the shadow of their social interaction from the examples cited in this book.

A strong and mild personality preference refers to people's recognition of their main social styles. It has nothing to do with whether a person has strong personality, firm belief or physical quality.

　　 Character Assessment

If you agree with A but do not agree with B, then the score is A=3, B=0. If you agree with A, but more agree with B, the score is A=1, B=2. Please score according to your true thoughts, do not take it for granted.

3 points and 0 points; 2 points and 1 points; no 0.5 points.