In the process of on-the-job communication, you must embody your personality charm before you can make more friends.

　　 1, let modesty show your wisdom.

" Modest mind 使人進(jìn)步,驕傲使人落后”.這是偉大的領(lǐng)袖毛主席給我們留下來的一條至理名言.謙虛是人的思想修養(yǎng),其核心是善于發(fā)現(xiàn)自己的短處和別人的長(zhǎng) 處,樂于以彼之長(zhǎng),補(bǔ)己之短.在現(xiàn)實(shí)的工作交往中,往往會(huì)有一些人,自認(rèn)為悟性很高,對(duì)于他人的意見置若罔聞,總是喜歡高談闊論,以專家和智者自居. 這種過于自負(fù)的人無疑是令人生厭的,也許他們真的很強(qiáng)大,但卻很難得到別人的尊敬和賞識(shí),注定會(huì)過得很孤獨(dú).所以,各位職場(chǎng)白領(lǐng)們,專家建議你們:無 論在任何時(shí)候,都不要讓自己成為各方面的行家,要讓自己永遠(yuǎn)以一種謙恭和學(xué)者的姿態(tài)去和別人打交道,即使你的學(xué)識(shí)勝于對(duì)方,也要表現(xiàn)出三分委婉的風(fēng)度 .這樣,不但可以贏取他人的賞識(shí)和尊敬,也可以展現(xiàn)自我的才華和智慧.

　　 2, let the refined language show your efficiency.

　　精言,顧名思義,是一種精髓的語言,它會(huì)用很簡(jiǎn)短的語句去表達(dá)其深刻的涵義,這不僅是一種言簡(jiǎn)意賅的體現(xiàn),更是一種工作效率的體現(xiàn).與其相反,就 是喋喋不休和滔滔不絕.有這么一些人會(huì)讓你感覺到很痛苦,往往他們一開口,別人就會(huì)失去了說話的權(quán)利,他們從來不能簡(jiǎn)明地表達(dá)自己的觀點(diǎn),從來不知道 什么該說什么不該說,總是想到什么就說什么,語無倫次,表意不清,直到你失去耐心,他仍然閉不上自己的嘴巴. 各位白領(lǐng)們,請(qǐng)牢記言多必有失的道理,話 多不如話少,話少不如話好,多言不如多知,即使千言萬語,也不及一件事實(shí)留下的印象深刻.“多言是虛浮的象征,因?yàn)榭陬^慷慨的人,行動(dòng)一定吝嗇.凡有 道德者,不可多言;有信義者,必不多言;有才智者,不必多言.”

　　 3, let tolerance show you. Manner .

　　俗話說:“人無完人”.我們大多數(shù)人都會(huì)具有武斷、固執(zhí)、嫉妒、猜忌、恐懼和傲慢等缺點(diǎn),而面對(duì)這些缺點(diǎn),作為處世的一方,如果一味的去進(jìn)行抱怨 和指責(zé),那么不但不會(huì)解決問題的根本,反而會(huì)使這些人性的弱點(diǎn)暴露無疑,去促成一種更為可悲的后果.這是由人性的本質(zhì)所決定的,當(dāng)我們犯了錯(cuò)誤的時(shí)候 ,并非意識(shí)不到自己的錯(cuò)誤,只是因?yàn)橐环N虛榮心和自尊心的遮掩,固執(zhí)地暫時(shí)不肯承認(rèn)而已.所以,在這個(gè)時(shí)候,如果你用一種很不妥當(dāng)?shù)姆绞饺ブ肛?zé)他的缺 點(diǎn)和錯(cuò)誤,必然會(huì)撞擊在他那固執(zhí)的鐵墻上,是不會(huì)有任何良好結(jié)果的;如果在此時(shí),你能夠保持一種良好的心態(tài),以理解和寬容去品察對(duì)方,并委婉的讓對(duì)方 意識(shí)到自己的錯(cuò)誤,這才是一種充滿智慧的交際手段.因此,作為職場(chǎng)的白領(lǐng),與人為善才能與己為善,當(dāng)你以寬仁之心禮待于人的時(shí)候,也必然會(huì)得到他人的 理解和尊敬,從而 To promote a more harmonious and friendly workplace communication circle, and to show your charm and elegant demeanor.

　 4, let silence show your connotation.

　　在職場(chǎng)交際中,也許大多數(shù)人都會(huì)認(rèn)為語言是其主要的交流方式,但我卻認(rèn)為,除了語言以外,沉默更是一種行之有效的交流手段.因?yàn)?沉默和語言相比 ,更富有理性,更富有智慧,也更富有內(nèi)涵.比如,當(dāng)你遭受到別人的無端指責(zé)和惡意詆毀的時(shí)候,而你又無法以坦言去澄清你的真源,在此時(shí),你不妨保持一 下沉默,因?yàn)?沉默是金,沉默更是一種力量.當(dāng)你保持沉默時(shí),對(duì)方往往由于不知道你的底牌而感到無窮的壓力,這時(shí),他的意志也將會(huì)受到動(dòng)搖甚至不戰(zhàn)自 潰;如果此時(shí)你進(jìn)行了反抗和爭(zhēng)辯,那么,你的愚昧行徑必將給對(duì)方以可乘之機(jī),這樣一來,不但不會(huì)得到任何友善的結(jié)局,反而會(huì)使自己進(jìn)一步陷入被動(dòng)和尷 尬的窘境,同時(shí)也會(huì)大大的詆損了自己的完美形象.如果說,還有一種比語言更偉大的真理,那就是沉默.一切的含義都將潛藏在一個(gè)眼神、一個(gè)笑容、甚至一 個(gè)木然的表情之中,這恰 It is precisely the expression of our truest intentions. Therefore, wise men often understand their value of silence deeply, so as to show their deepest connotation in the best way.

　 5, let humor show you. charm .

Like a pale piece of paper, a lack of vitality can make people feel an endless depression. If appropriate, a little humour is added, and some bright colors will be embellished on this pale paper. It will make people feel a sense of visual beauty and ease of mind. Moderate humor is also a very important auxiliary means in modern communication mode. It will not only affect the progress of the work, but it can also play the effect and function that some "harsh words" can not achieve. As a white-collar in the workplace, we should skillfully use our humor and let laughter add harmonious colors to our contacts, so that laughter can add weight to our work. Some people think that humor is "finding pleasure" and "making jokes". It is hard for them to make a good job. For this reason, the experts of recruitment website have different opinions. They think that the work is intense and busy.

In interpersonal relationships, it is inevitable that people will feel a depression if they speak in a serious way. Even if you only say three minutes, you will feel that you have spoken for an hour. If you can come up with a little humor and make people laugh, even if you speak for an hour, you will make others feel as short as three minutes, which is the charm of humor.