First, do not agree with others.

Young people regard modesty as virtue and everything low key is not wrong, so in the office, do not deliberately express themselves, otherwise it will easily become a target of public criticism; but you are modest, left, "ginger is still old spicy!" I hear your right, right you alone, I will listen to you on this matter, you will say what to do! In other words, on the last one or two times, others think you are modest, this is your virtue, and many times, others think you only have such a dish, people will see "flat" you, your status in the office is easy to be ignored. For young people, when they display their ability, they should give their shots when they are ready. In addition to agreeable views, they should also have their own opinions. Generally speaking, their superiors admire those who have brains and courage. Their colleagues also prefer partners who are capable of being independent and independent. No matter where you are in the office, are you young? You should have your own opinions or opinions on everything. You should also show your views in time. At the same time, you should also show your abilities in the right way.

　　 Two, let's talk about it. Conversation When debates.

"One hundred people, all kinds of colors." Everyone's personality, interests and hobbies are not exactly the same. The views on the same thing will be "benevolence and benevolence" and "wise men see wisdom". It is hoped that more people will agree with their own views, and try to persuade others to agree with their own views. But there are several points to note: to be friendly with others, to be modest in speaking, and to talk about those matters which are not principled, do not have to fight for the right and wrong; even if it is a matter of principle, we must allow others to hold reservations. Do not keep chattering about others for taming others, or even get a blush and pay attention to "do not want others to do what you want!" of course, every one of us is

　　 Three, when things need to be low-key, don't be public. show off Own.

Although modern society does not advocate Tao Yang, repent and hide talent, but likes to show off in public, no matter how it is the lack of self-restraint performance. 我們提倡現(xiàn)代人要勇于展示自己的才華，但展示畢竟不同于炫耀，上司欣賞你過硬的技術(shù)本領(lǐng)，你就應(yīng)該在這個舞臺上展示自己的風采，而這不能成為你在同事面前炫耀的資本;你又談成了一筆業(yè)務(wù)，上司給了你“紅包”，你可以心花怒放，你也可以喜形于色，但你“得意”不要“忘形”——你用不著在辦公室里自我炫耀，自我吹噓，眾人在恭喜你的時候，說不定也在嫉恨你;再說，“山外有山，人外有人”，“強中更有強中手”，一個好的企業(yè)一定是藏龍臥虎之地，有的人深藏不露卻身懷絕技，有的人其貌不揚但卻身手不凡，“魯班門前舞大斧”就叫人笑話了。

　　 Four, whisper less, mutual complaint. Worry No good.

"The same is the end of the world, why do we know each other?" some of the people around us, who are not satisfied with their work and life, always like to talk to others, hoping to get comfort from others and get advice from others. You open your heart to others, though you can win sympathy and comfort from others, but you may lose your privacy. Your trust in others increases, though it can win the favor of others, and narrow the distance between them, but it may lose the respect of others. Psychologists have shown that only 1% of people in public places are able to keep secrets so that it is better to confide in public places.

When there is a crisis in your life, such as lovelorn, family discord and so on, it is best not to talk to anyone in the office. When your job is in crisis, you can't do things well and have opinions and opinions about your superiors and colleagues. You must never show your heart to people in the office, and do not say that walls have ears.

"What song to sing in the mountains!" a man with a strong voice should speak separately. The attitude of a successful speaker is that he speaks in a high and humble way, with elegant body language and humorous words. For ordinary people, they should seldom hit these "red lines" in public places.