Job requirements Public-private distinction

This is the basic knowledge of doing work. But it is not easy to work in strict accordance with the rules at work. In general, some people will drill into human relationships and do not follow routine rules. Men do these activities, often setting up traps of love or friendship to deceive female colleagues into drilling. When a woman is still in a state of confusion, let the woman unconsciously become a man's tool. Therefore, when women have office friendship or romance, they should be sensible and not violate the principles when they encounter public affairs.

　　 Don't hurt a man. Self-respect

It's not that you want to flatter the men, but you must understand that men are always confident that the world is the first, omniscient and omnipotent. This self-esteem is actually very fragile. Once a woman threatens his existence, he will resist understanding. So if you want to gain a foothold in a modern world, you must know how to maintain their self-esteem at the right time and praise them for one or two sentences. But remember: this compliment must be measured. Otherwise, others may misunderstand you and embarrass you.

　　 Seeking common ground in getting along with others

Men are often at a loss when they are faced with professional women, because the women they meet are not only colleagues but also women. In this case, you try to eliminate their psychology, try to find a common point, resonate, and make it easier to get along.

If we want to achieve this goal, we must know the preferences of the person before we can prescribe the right medicine. If you listen to music, then you have a common topic. You can also talk about things outside public affairs naturally. In addition, men and women are very concerned about their families and children, so greeting their children will slowly eliminate his hostility and vigilance against you.

　　 Men seeking Opinion

It is also an admiration to ask men for advice. Because this means that you value his opinions and experience and make him feel the importance of his existence. But when you are asking for advice, do not let him feel that you are not big enough to ask questions, which makes him feel that you have no judgement and no choice at all.

　　 When you ask men's advice, you should pay attention to:

In the company, it is very unsuitable for men to discuss purely private problems, such as family, husbands, boyfriends and so on unless you have a very good personal relationship with him.

Of course, if you want to buy a car, invest in a stock or buy a house, and know that he has research in this area, you can ask him for advice in a relaxed situation (such as lunch and after work), which will make him feel that you have a good eye and are friendly to you, and will automatically remind you later. For purely public matters, they may be put forward at any time, and there is no need to be embarrassed.