Introduction: the safe distance method is to respect each other's "independent space" before the two sides have spoken.

In the work of business, people get along with each other. In addition to "communicating" with "language", body language also plays an important role. Proper keeping of a safe distance is also very important.

Now let's take a look at the safe distance in business etiquette.

For example, when a guest enters a store, the clerk lets the guest relax his body first and browse the merchandise at will.

About one or two minutes later, if a guest asks for a voice or raises his eyes to find a shop assistant, the customer will welcome the clerk to his or her "independent space".

For example, colleagues in the office, whether in charge or in rank, have tacit and personal "independent spaces", usually in the middle of their own desks.

When we have something to coordinate or handle, we must stand outside the other side's territory and let him (she) have enough sense of security.

For example, when

Hurrying from outside

It's best not to discuss things with him at once. It's really urgent to discuss and wait for him to rest for a few minutes. Then knock on his door and stand in the market one meter from his desk, and ask, "is it convenient for me to discuss something with you?"

In short, only enough in "independent space".

He or she can easily open up and communicate with us.

There are always some department store salesmen who follow us closely as soon as we enter the shop, introduce this, introduce that, give us a great sense of oppression, and make us eager to leave this space.

The result of this backfire is that they do not understand themselves or respect other people's "independent space".

According to Edward Herr, the American cultural anthropologist, only 0.5 persons close to each other close to each other, such as spouses, children, friends, siblings, etc.

Individuals ranging from 0.5 meters to 1.25 meters are individuals. People close to them can be colleagues, classmates, students, friends and so on.

The area from 1.25 meters to 3.5 meters is a social field, which can be customers, neighbors and acquaintances.

3.5 meters away from the public sphere, you and him occasionally meet each other, or strangers.

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If a girl finds out that you can bear in mind her trivial trivial matters, she will have a strong sense of trust in you.

Most women believe that men are naturally amnesia, especially for small things.

Moreover, they regard the man's "nature" as unchanging, and assume that men can never remember trivial matters at all.

They do not know why to draw such a conclusion.

Of course, they are so sure about this characteristic of men that they must be justified.

For example, in the aspect of dress, no matter what color you wore in the past few days, what kind of clothes you wear yesterday and today, women remember all these things very clearly, and will not forget them for a long time.

However, men are different in this respect. They don't know what kind of clothes they are wearing before and after, and much less care about the clothes of others.

Besides, it seems that men seem to have forgotten all about the evolution of children's clothing, the evolution of school and the appearance of adults. Women can recite what clothes they wear from childhood to size.

However, this does not mean that men's memory is not as good as that of women. Women usually bear in mind nothing but trivial matters in life. As for learning cultural and scientific knowledge, most men are stronger than women.

Because of differences in life and physiology, women are very organized in everything they do with family matters. In a meticulous and thoughtful way, women are stronger than men.