Mentality affects people's ability and ability affects people's fate.

The quality of life depends on your daily state of mind. If you can guarantee that you are in a good mood, you can ensure your mood is good today. You can ensure that every day you are in a good mood and you will get a good quality of life and experience the beautiful life that others can't experience.

Edward, king of England, a duchess of Windsor, a Duke of Windsor, was a junior Naval Academy in England.

One day, the instructor found that the little prince was crying in the corner of the school. After repeated questioning, he realized that the little prince had been repeatedly kicked by his classmates.

The instructor asked the student who had kicked the buttocks to explain the reason, and the students stammered for a long time before he told a reason why the instructor could not help laughing. When they hoped to become a royal naval officer in the future, they could brag about their subordinates with pride. They had once kicked the king's butt.

You may find it ridiculous.

However, Carnegie, a famous educationalist, told us: "if you are kicked or attacked, remember that they want to do such a thing simply because it gives them a sense of importance.

This usually means that you have achieved something and deserve attention. "

In the workplace where Party members differ in common and fight against each other, they will often be kicked by some villains.

What should you do when you kick your butt or even get kicked sometimes?

If you are in a rage or depressed and depressed, this is exactly what the kicking player thinks.

The best way is to change the way of thinking according to Carnegie's point of view: they kick me because I am very important, I have made great achievements, I have aroused their jealousy and envy, and I should have done better.

Liu Li's self adjustment process is Liu Li, the quality manager of a manufacturing company.

I know it is probably because of my promotion.

However, when I think about it, I feel that after being promoted to the Minister of quality, I do not have too much language, behavior and performance. I am not afraid to be proud of myself.

But occasionally, hostile words and unclear expressions and attitudes are like a thorn in the back.

No one else in the Department talked about it, so they had to tell their parents or friends that they finally began to feel depressed.

As a result, I began to challenge my own endurance. I hinted that I would not pay any attention to other people's arguments and do my job well.

At that time, I lost my happiness in the past, and adjusted my mind in a depressed and depressed environment.

I try to make myself feel better and happier.

Put yourself in others' shoes, think more about others, smile more, be more enthusiastic, do more work, and help your colleagues and subordinates more.

Slowly, I have seen the work of my own department, and there are more and more people supporting me.

Now I have regained my usual tranquillity and happiness, and I am more and more harmonious with my colleagues in this department.

Looking back on that time, my secret is to keep a calm mind and do well in my duties. Everything will be over.

Other people's hostility and suppression may be their driving force and opportunities to change, improve and mature.

You can't change the environment, but you can change yourself. You can't change facts, but you can change your attitude. You can't change the past, but you can change the present; you can't control others, but you can control yourself.

Like moonlight, it is not quiet and desolate; like meteors, not for its short and melancholy; like flowers, not for its defeat and tears; like winter snow, not for its melting and sadness.

Just like William, a great American philosopher?

James said: "the greatest discovery of our generation is that human beings can change their lives by changing their attitudes."

The state of mind affects people's ability and ability affects people's fate.

The quality of life depends on your daily state of mind. If you can guarantee that you are in a good mood, you can ensure your mood is good today. You can ensure that every day you are in a good mood and you will get a good quality of life and experience the beautiful life that others can't experience.