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Workplace: The Most Taboo Colleagues In The Office

2008/10/21 17:33:00 41887

You have always considered yourself an unmatched employee - not late, not leaving early, finishing the work on time, and never taking care of the stationery in the company.

But don't forget that measuring a person's work performance is not just a matter of personal performance, but also an important element of coordination with the surrounding environment.

It is good to be strict with yourself in your work, but if you have too many arguments with your colleagues, it will become a Hidden Reef for your success.

　　注重工作中的人際關(guān)系，并不意味著你必須費(fèi)盡心機(jī)和全辦公室的人打成一片。但總地來(lái)說(shuō)，良好的人際關(guān)系毫無(wú)疑問(wèn)能使工作開展得更為順利，使你的努力事半功倍。因此，沒有人愿意成為毫無(wú)人緣的“辦公室討厭蟲”。以下有一面鏡子，請(qǐng)對(duì)照著看看自己是否無(wú)意之中犯了禁，有則改之，無(wú)則加冕。

　　“辦公室討厭蟲”第一號(hào)

　　撒謊者

Some small jokes in the workplace are harmless, but watch out for them to develop into awful gossip and even rumors of hurting people.

A lot of people who do not know how to think carefully and speak later become unaware of all kinds of rumors.

A reporter of mine always has nothing to do with my desk and talk about the sex scandal of the editor in chief. You think, such a sensitive place, such a sensitive topic, I really don't know what to do.

Jing Yi, a 29 year old journalist, complained that her source was reliable. She never cared about my interest in her inside story.

If you are extremely keen on spreading some low-level gossip, at least you should not expect others to be equally keen on listening.

Sooner or later, those colleagues who are different from each other will not be afraid of you.

Even if you use all kinds of grapevine news to become the red man in the tea room for a time, no one will ever be sincere about a mouthing talker.

　　拯救方案

Learn to be secretive - especially on topics related to the private life of your colleagues.

Remember, dripping can wear stones. At the critical moment, you will realize how valuable your colleagues' trust is.

　 “辦公室討厭蟲”第二號(hào)

　　播毒者

Grumbled and angry, these are the most striking characteristics of the sowing people.

Despite the fact that occasionally some sincere complaints can build up an illusion of office friendships, endless complaints can make people miserable around you - you have cloned your own depression and imposed it on innocent people in an unconscious way.

　和我同一部門的一名項(xiàng)目經(jīng)理只要一出現(xiàn)在辦公室里，我們就無(wú)法逃脫那長(zhǎng)達(dá)數(shù)小時(shí)的心理折磨。24歲的戴菲是一家公司的客戶主管，明明是些和自己無(wú)關(guān)的事情，可在她持續(xù)不斷的連番轟炸之下，我們不得不想盡辦法擺脫她那極具傳染力的消極情緒。也許你把訴苦看作開誠(chéng)布公的一種方式，但訴苦訴到盡頭便會(huì)升華成憤怒。人們會(huì)奇怪既然你對(duì)現(xiàn)狀如此不滿，為何不干脆換個(gè)環(huán)境，遠(yuǎn)走高飛。

　　拯救方案

How to hate in the heart is higher than the sky. You must also remember a motto: silence is golden.

If you have made an impression of "office worm", it is hard to get any response from colleagues no matter what you say.

In the future, if there is more complaining and waiting for vent, try to put all the unpleasant words in the form of E-MAIL to a friend and friend who has no working relationship. She will solve your worries for you.

The main advantage of this is that your resentment has been unwittingly released in a most low-key way.

　　“辦公室討厭蟲”第三號(hào)

　　乞憐者

When someone asks you about your situation, you can habitually answer: not very good.

Well, listen to me.

　　把生活中的創(chuàng)傷和痛苦作為談資，是否真能使你從中得到緩釋？請(qǐng)注意:一個(gè)可憐的人通常也會(huì)是一個(gè)孤獨(dú)的人，因?yàn)闆]有人愿意和心理上的弱者交往。坐我旁邊的一名女同事腿上有塊地方蛻了皮，我可不敢問(wèn)她怎么回事，一位26歲的市場(chǎng)助理舒萌說(shuō)，我知道只要開口一問(wèn)，她準(zhǔn)會(huì)從交通狀況談到個(gè)人醫(yī)療保險(xiǎn)，沒半小時(shí)完不了。

I believe that your original intention is not to get sympathy from others, because compassion and respect are not compatible with certain things, and it is hard to make the best of both worlds.

Besides, if others feel that you even mess up your own life, how can you work well?

　　拯救方案

Put away your sad stories, Xiang Linsao is not popular in the old society, and now?

Instead of pouring down their own bitter water, we should be concerned about the current situation of our colleagues and help them in time.

　　“辦公室討厭蟲”第四號(hào)

　　攀貴者

This person does not pay much attention to the interaction with subordinates or even their colleagues at the same level, and is always waiting for opportunities to catch up with others and make them go all the way to heaven.

It is a universal mentality that people go up high, but if they do too much, the nickname of flatterer is afraid to escape.

Several colleagues in our department have been working together on the same table for lunch. Every time a Meggie, she always sits alone in a corner.

Meggie, a 25 year old executive secretary of foreign enterprises, said that one day, the vice president of the company came to the restaurant to have dinner with us. We had a sharp eye and flew to our side.

Disgusting!

　　拯救方案

All colleagues should be treated equally - including those who work from the bottom floor - with sincere respect and appreciation for them.

As the saying goes, "no real face."

You can never predict that behind those silent little people, there will be no big people backing up, or they will never have any influence on the big ones.

Besides, if your boss feels that you are making enemies everywhere, this impression will do you no good even if you don't like your company in the company.

Ji Ru, a 27 year old public relations assistant, learned this truth through painful lessons.

In the office, a new colleague who was very incompetent in the eyes of Ji Ru, came to light naturally, but finally discovered that he was the niece of the general manager.

How could I have imagined that she was the informant that the boss planted in the company?

Ji Ru regretted that she did not speak less of me, or how I would stay in the assistant's seat for more than 2 years.

　　“辦公室討厭蟲”第五號(hào)

　　搔首弄姿者

The motto of this man is that wine is afraid of alley.

Relying on your own beauty, you will lose no time in giving full play to the charm of women in front of your male colleagues, and at the same time become the jokes and eyesore of women's colleagues.

Hui Xin, a 28 year old advertising agency, said that her fate was nowhere to go, and the office staff almost ignored her.

Even if your fox behavior really attracts some men, don't forget that more people are simply indifferent.

I used to have a colleague who liked to attract men with a looming Garter, but she didn't know that men and women in the office laughed at her.

The 25 year old beauty consultant said.

　　拯救方案

In fact, under the shell of official business, you can skillfully display the charming and attractive aspect, so you don't have to strive to turn the image of the beauty of all beings into reverse.

Only when you have intimate relationship with the opposite sex, will it be reasonable to discharge frequently to the other side.

In general, colleagues will conclude that a person who only likes others pleasing others lacks practical working ability, which can definitely become a stumbling block to your career development.