Although there is a saying that "there is no wine without seats", the ancients did not pay attention to "feeling deeply, one mouthful". Instead, they thought it was impolite to urge people to drink.

tradition Ceremony There is a special banquet etiquette. The role of wine in banquet is equal to that of dishes. Therefore, banquet is also called "Banquet". In ancient times, wine was not only a requirement of etiquette, but also a function of music. Toast The number of times, speed, successively, by whom toast, how to toast, are courtesy, not careless.

But the ancient banquet was polite. Hospitality The tradition, therefore, is not difficult for the guests who lack the amount of alcohol or even a drop of cake. Instead, the "Han Shu Chu Yuan biography" records: "yuan Wang Jingli, Shen Gong and so on, Mu Sheng is not fond of wine. Yuan Wang sets wine for each other. He often drinks for the Mu Sheng." sweet wine is a kind of sweet wine with a low alcohol content. It is well documented that in ancient times there was tea etiquette for wine. "Three Kingdoms Wu Zhi Wei Yao biography" recorded such scenes. Wu Lord Sun Hao entertained guests, Wei Yao was not good at drinking, Sun Hao gave tea as wine.

Block wine: many people have been urged to be encouraged by their deskmate during the dinner. In this case, you can tell your deskmate in particular that you don't drink alcohol before dinner, and apologize for it. At the same time, you can take the initiative to substitute tea for wine.

To urge wine: if it is to persuade people to drink, they must not be forced. If they see their relatives and friends losing their cups, they should persuade him not to drink. This is a respect for their relatives and friends, but also for everyone. But when we urge wine, we should pay attention to using witty and humorous words instead of blindly accusing it, so that we can not only achieve the purpose of persuading wine, but also destroy the atmosphere on the table.