Pay attention to the object. Different objects of conversation decide the content and way of conversation, that is to say, "see what people say." Talking with a bold and unconstrained person can be clear and straightforward, not too subtle or even hesitant. When talking with introverted people, we should pay attention to rigorous and concise words, and not be too frank or even careless. Talk with your elders, superiors and guests. Be modest and steady, and talk with colleagues, friends and subordinates. You can be relaxed and free.

Pay attention to occasions. Attention should be paid to occasions. Different occasions, the content and way of conversation are also different. The first is the question of "what to talk". On different occasions, the content of conversation is different. For example, happy occasions, we should pick some happy and heated topics, and can not say some disappointing words. And the question of "how to talk". On different occasions, the way of conversation is different. Formal occasions can only be used in a more serious way, while informal occasions can be used in a more relaxed way.

Pay attention to your attitude. Honesty, equality, seriousness and courtesy are the necessary attitudes for conversation. Honesty and candour can increase trust and intimacy, narrow the distance between the two sides and deepen our understanding. To treat others equally is to respect each other, to be humble and not to be overbearing, so that we can talk with one's knees and carry out spiritual communication and communication. Taking seriously, concentrating spirit, giving people trust and respect for each other. Otherwise, it will give people a kind of perfunctory impression. Polite, courteous, courteous, polite, respectful and observant. Chatter without stop, It is neither silent nor too modest; it is neither stubborn nor acrimonious.

Be careful Taboo 。 Although some conversations can speak freely, there is nothing to talk about. However, as social occasions and public affairs, conversation should be scruples. Generally speaking, we must base ourselves on Conversation object Taking into account ethnic, gender, customs and cultural backgrounds. Generally do not involve personal privacy, disease, physical defects, etc., for others do not want to talk about or easy to cause grief, we should try to avoid. We should not discuss topics of secrecy, nor talk about superiors, elders and celebrities, nor can we talk about celebrities' privacy scandals. If there is no intention to involve taboo topics, apologize in time and ask for forgiveness.