A newly graduated colleague and I chatted with me, the young man's ability was pretty good. Maybe it was "the newborn calf is not afraid of the tiger".

When he talked about the company's current situation, including asking many of his colleagues, I obviously felt that he was dissatisfied with the company's older generation and had great confidence and expectations for himself.

The young people are not crazy.

Seven years ago, I walked out of school and walked to work with this appearance.

When I saw the young man in front of me, I felt that I was the "old turtle" in the workplace.

However, past experience has taught me that this aggressive ambition and toughness of a young man is not a good thing.

I think I am a law-abiding person, and if he does not feel happy about his words and deeds, if he is replaced by his immediate superior or a colleague who has conflicts of interest with him, I do not know that they will feel a little sick of him.

Perhaps the young man had not yet set foot on the road, and was planted in a trap set by others because of his ambition.

Although the young man's speech is not so respectful, I can see his shadow in his mind when I first entered the workplace. So I can not help but suggest to him that he should speak less and do more, but speak less.

It is no harm to speak less.

This is a very simple sentence.

I do not know whether this sentence will arouse the attention of many "rookie" in the workplace, nor do I know if anyone will think that I am a veteran in the workplace.

When I asked myself, I felt that I had told a truth, though it was a little negative and sensible for some decent gentlemen.

From countless experiences and lessons, he said that he should not say something, and he wanted to say it in another way. It is a very brilliant technical means.

I admire a lot of people who are familiar with this and are very familiar with Tengda.

I would like to give you a few examples that I can see with my own eyes, but I fear that some people will sit down and get into trouble. So let me tell you a few historical stories, hoping that you will understand the benefits of speaking less.

Two days ago, I was ignorant of Ma Fu, who was 1 years old, the Eastern Han Dynasty, Ma Yuan, and Cai E, who wrote a commemoration of the death of 90th anniversary by Sun Zhongshan. He unwittingly discovered a couplet written by CAI for Cai: all the generosity of his class was protected, and ten thousand miles were shut off.

At that time, I did not know what Ma Fubo meant, and only by consulting the data did I know that the so-called "Ma Fubo" refers to Ma Yuan, a famous Eastern Han Dynasty.

Then I learned some stories about Ma Yuan.

It is reported that Ma Yuan has heard that his nephew Ma Yan and Ma Dun are talking about others and meddling in the frontline of the crusade against him. He sent a letter to the two nephews from the front line.

Some of my children and grandchildren have this kind of behavior, which makes me feel bad and I would rather die than see this phenomenon again.

I hope you can hear others' faults, just like hearing their parents' names, ears can hear, but their lips can not speak.

I will give you two examples to let you learn to quit.

Don't study Du Bao if you want to learn dragon.

He is honest and prudent. He does not say a wrong thing. He is economical and dignified. I respect him very much.

If you learn dragon description, you will learn little, but you will never hurt yourself.

That is to say, it is impossible to become a wild goose. At best, it is a duck.

DUBAO is very honest and takes others' worries as his own worries. He regards others' happiness as his own happiness and makes many friends.

When his father died, all the friends from far and near counties came.

I respect him too, but I hope you can't learn from him.

If he fails to learn, he will fall into a frivolous child, just like painting a tiger without becoming a dog.

This is really a good idea.

Soon, DUBAO was guilty.

When he was scolded by Liu Xiu of the light emperor and told him by his letter from him, he was frightened to kowtow and bled.

However, Ma told his nephew that no matter how long he was and what he did not criticisms of state affairs, he became popular in the future and became a useful weapon to preserve his family in the future.

Zeng Guofan, 2, Qing Dynasty ZTE famous minister, Zeng Guofan, is a famous minister highly praised by Jiang Jieshi and Mao Zedong.

Everyone knows him well, except that he led the Xiang army to defeat the Taiping Heavenly Kingdom abroad.

According to Zeng Guofan's letter, Xianfeng's eight years (1158) is the occasion of the army's prosperity.

At this time, Zeng Guofan's nine brother Zeng Guo Quan was arrogant. Zeng Guofan wrote to the nine brothers in two consecutive times in March, saying that he was arrogant and multi wording as the two end of "fierce moral defeat". In March, he wrote in six letters: "since ancient times, there have been two aspects of bad morals resulting from bad morals: one is arrogance, the other is multilingual."

The two sons of Yao's son Dan Zhu are arrogant and argumentative.

Many famous and high-ranking officials have lost their lives in the past dynasties, too, because of these two.

I have been stubborn and arrogant in my whole life. Though not many words, there is a good tendency to argue in the language.

Yuan Di, you are very respectful and respectful.

But he likes to laugh and ridicule.

I heard that when he was in the county seat, he had taunting things at will. There was something wrong with others. They should be changed quickly.

Zeng Guofan was afraid that Zeng Guo Quan forgot the two precepts. After seven days, he wrote to warn Zeng Guo Quan to stop arrogant and speak many words.

In the eyes of those who do not know his character, he seems to have a nagging suspicion. People who do not understand the environment of the declining Dynasty will also laugh at him for worrying too much.

However, this depression like expression is indeed a technical measure of self preservation.

Its purpose is to dispel the worries of the rulers of the dynasty to their brothers and show that they are loyal to the court and have no anti heart.

3, in the Northern Song Dynasty, Su Shi and Su Shi, who had been convicted of the crime, mentioned Su Shi Su Dongpo.

However, it is just like "the talented poor people all over the world".

Su Shi's talent, but his life was rough and battered. It had great relations with his direct political affairs and irony.

For example, he wrote a poem of "mountain village" in response to the green seedling law introduced in Wang Anshi's reform, saying: "stick to the rice and go in a hurry.

Winning children's voice is good, half a year in the city.

The people get green seedlings and spend too much money in the city.

Another example is "autumn peony": "chemical industry only wants to be new, but not idle."

Su Shi was arrested from Huzhou and returned to Beijing. He has no alternative but to admit that chemical industry is more than official, idle flowers are smaller than small people.

After the arrest of Su Shi, he was detained in Yushitai and Yushitai was known as Utai.

The case of Wutai poetry involves a group of twenty-two political figures who oppose Song Shenzong and Wang Anshi's reforms. They include a total of about twenty-two people, including Suzhe (Shi Di), Sima Guang and Liu Zhi.

The reason why these people are in jail is one of the same faults: big mouth.

Su Shi and others, as a result of their crimes, have always been the tools of political struggle. Whenever they want to succeed, they must always be on guard against the "small debates" that are caught by people.

Like Su Shi, a historical figure who has been convicted of sin is almost uncommon.

Ancient ones such as Liu Yuxi, such as Yang Xiu, modern ones such as Peng Dehuai, such as Zhang Zhixin, etc.

Of course, the world is easy to move. Today's workplace is not the same as the ancient officialdom. However, it is still necessary for people in the workplace to guard against arrogance and rhetoric.

Because walls have ears, no one in the world likes others (especially subordinates) to say that they are not. No one will turn a blind eye to an ambitious person.

Always watch out for those who "wear a waistcoat and are themselves a bastard" give you "wear small shoes".