The relationship between your partner and you can be judged by the distance he keeps with you.

At the same time, the dialogue between them is also closely related to the distance between the two sides.

According to the observation by American anthropologist Pieter Watt and Holzer, interpersonal relationship can be judged by eight distances.

The 1. close distance (near 0.15 meters) is the distance between touching, fighting, comforting and protecting. It is the distance between the two sides when they are closest to each other.

At this time, the function of language is very small.

The 2. close distance (0.15~0.45 meters) is the distance between reaching out to each other.

It is the distance between close companions, and the distance between people in crowded trams.

The 3. individual distance - proximity (0.45~0.75 m) is the ability to hug or grasp each other.

For each other's expression is clear at a glance.

It is natural for a man's wife to be in such a position, while other girls are prone to misunderstand at this distance.

The distance between the 4. individuals is 0.75~1.20 distance, which is the distance between the two sides reaching at the same time. This is a kind of distance that we should have when we ask someone to do something.

The 5. social distance - 1.20~2.10 (m) is the boundary beyond the physical contact. It is a distance between colleagues.

Keeping this distance makes people have an elegant and dignified temperament.

The 6. social distance - 2.10~3.60 (distance) is the distance between work and work. It can be neither affected by others nor added trouble to others.

When husband and wife stay at home, keep this distance, they can not interfere with each other.

The 7. distance between the public and the close (3.6~7.5 m) is about 4 meters away, indicating that there are many problems or thoughts to be resolved and communicated between the speaker and the listener.

The distance between the 8. and the public is far away from the type (7.5 meters above).

If you can put these 8 distances in mind, you can accurately and smoothly judge the relationship and intimately between you and your partner.