The most troublesome thing about giving gifts is that the other side is unwilling to accept or refuse to refuse, or politely refuse, or afterwards return gifts, which makes the gift giving people very embarrassed.

Then, how can we take precaution against it?

The key is to find out whether the excuse is good or not. The gift says that the circle is not round. Your intelligence and wisdom should be used in this aspect.

Gifts usually have the following methods: 1., to give gifts to the Buddha. If you send local products, you can say that they are brought by people from their hometown. Some of them are tasted fresh, not many things, and they do not spend money.

Ask him to accept it. Generally speaking, the recipient's fear of your purpose is too strong, and it is easy to relax and accept your gift.

2., if you send something like wine, you might as well borrow someone else to send you two bottles of wine to drink with each other, so that you can take a bottle and send it to a bottle.

3., borrow a horse to lead the way, sometimes you want to give gifts to others, but the other party is not related to your eight poles. You may choose the wedding day of the gift givers and invite a few acquaintances to send congratulations. Then the recipient will refuse to accept it. When you know that the idea is coming out of you, you will certainly change your opinion.

4., Mr. Zhang, Mr. Zhang has something to do with Mr. Liu. He wants to send some gifts to clear up. He is afraid of Mr. Liu's refusal and refute his face.

Mr. Zhang's wife is very familiar with Mr. Liu's girlfriend. Mr. Zhang used his wife's diplomacy to make his wife pay a visit with gifts. He succeeded in one stroke, and the ceremony was also accepted. He also did the same thing. It seemed that sometimes the direct attack was better than the roundabout movement.

5., first of all, it is borrowed. If you send something, you might as well say that this thing is left behind in my house. Let him take it first and buy it in the future. If you send money, you can say that you can get some flowers first, and then you can have it later. If you do not urge him to return, it will be sent to you forever. This will also reduce the psychological burden of the recipient, and the purpose of your gift will be achieved.

6., a subordinate who had been very grateful to his superiors, always wanted to repay. However, he had no chance. One day, he happened to find that the calligraphy and painting in the frame of his mahogany frame was a rubbing. It was not in harmony with the elegant furnishings of his family. His uncle was a famous calligrapher in the whole country, and he also had his paintings and calligraphy on hand.

He immediately took the calligraphy and painting and put it in the frame of the mirror. Instead of objection, the boss liked it very much, and the purpose of giving gifts was finally achieved.

7., you can buy a gift by way of a bridge. You can buy it at the factory price, the wholesale price and the preferential price when you give it to the recipient. It symbolizes the cost to the recipient. The effect is not the same as the gift giving. Because the recipient has paid the money, he has no worries when collecting things.