If you have done a lot, then I hope you will not wear a mask again, because a person's charm stems from the true presentation of himself, and such a person is the most popular.

Do you like a perfect person or a real person?

At least Americans like the truth.

Most of the presidents of the United States can give people the impression that they are graceful and charming.

President Kennedy's popularity with the American public is probably uncommon in the history of the United States.

However, Kennedy is not a perfect person.

He tried to invade Cuba in the bay of pigs, and was defeated.

Such a big military mistake, no matter how good a leader is, will be considered by ordinary people to be a great discount to the image of the leader.

It is puzzling that the "pig Bay defeat" has not reduced Kennedy's personal reputation, but has made his image in the public mind more real, full and close. People are more fond of the president who will also make mistakes.

Psychologists suspect that the reason for this is that this mistake has made people believe that even the almost faultless president depicted in the news media at that time is bound to make mistakes.

And after making mistakes, he admitted his mistakes.

This narrowed the distance between the president and the public and won more of the past who did not like others.

Despite the pursuit of perfection, people do not dare to believe in the face of a perfect person.

Who can't be a saint?

However, from ancient times to the present, who has seen the sages of "no"?

The Chinese acrobatic troupe also made mistakes in performing abroad.

However, the local audience did not cynical about the actors' temporary mistakes. Instead, they went to see the performance.

Because people learn from the mistakes of acrobats that their thrilling moves are real.

True, it gives people the deepest impression.

Alonson, a social psychologist, has also proved what kind of people are more popular through experiments.

He designed such an experiment: in a competitive speech conference, there are four players, two can be outstanding, and almost equal, and the other two can be mediocre.

One of the outstanding players accidentally overturned the drinks on the table, while one of the mediocre players overturned the drink.

If you are, who would you like?

The results show that the most popular people who have made minor mistakes are mediocre and those who make the same mistake are the least attractive.

How do you agree with your opinion?

This experiment shows people a strong proposition: white walls are more beautiful than white ones.

A little mistake will increase the attractiveness of a talented person.

This is the "error effect" in interpersonal communication.

There is no doubt about the rationality of the old saying that "gold is not free and people are not determined".

However, few people really understand the psychological laws behind it.

A bad person must be unpopular, but a good man is often unbearable.

People who want to be perfect can not only make themselves difficult but also suffocate the people around them.

A colleague in the unit is always strict with himself. He is very cautious and very polite to others.

The boss said a few words to him, and his fear and fear seemed to be a crime.

Once he enters the office, people usually stop joking.

I saw him and somehow I remembered "the man in the sleeve" - Bie Lee Co J.

A man is only a living person, a person who shines the light of personality charm only when he fully demonstrates the real side of his personality.

Even if you make mistakes occasionally, you can only make your impression in others' mind more vivid and wonderful.