Life is bound to touch some slippery people, often "see people speak people, ghost talk".

These people are envious of their ability to do well in front of others, and at the same time hate their slippery manner.

So how do we look at such a slippery person?

If we encounter some difficult situations, do we need to become more slippery to adapt to the society?

In fact, Ji Xiaolan has done a good explanation 200 years ago in Qianlong years.

He believed that people should be "smooth, honest and unsophisticated."

This means that when dealing with specific matters, we can appropriately grasp the yardstick and adopt different methods according to different situations, but we must be honest and honest in heart, and be honest in our conduct.

You should insist on expressing your ideas firmly.

Things that can be compromised should be better placed to understand the meaning of others, make appropriate compromises, or even give up their opinions.

If a person hits the head with anything else, it will not only make you feel like a belligerent cock, but also feel that your EQ is low. But if a person has nothing to do with his head, he will only nod and flatter. That will not only be considered as smooth and not respected.

From the perspective of social intercourse ability and adaptability, it is a good social interaction ability.

They often have a very acute judgement of their environment and the feelings of others. They will tell what should be said at that time according to the situation at that time and make what should be done at that time.

Such people usually adapt well in all aspects, and can quickly invest in a new interpersonal environment.

However, communication between people still needs communication from heart to heart.

Therefore, while we are tactful, we must remember a fundamental: honesty and honesty.

Imagine a long-term interaction with a person who is not only tactful but also hypocritical. How can he feel relieved?

How can such a person get a real friend?

To be a smooth and honest person is to be a flexible and mature person. It is to maintain a moderate flexibility in interpersonal relationships, to grasp the propriety of speaking, to learn to be tactful and vague, so as to maintain a balanced interpersonal relationship; to attach importance to the entertainment in life, and to establish good connections through details of life and work; at the same time, to have a truly valuable relationship with friends and establish a deep friendship in daily life.

In the work, different types of colleagues should take different strategies, and let your immediate superior know and like you, and maintain good interpersonal relationship with the superiors, so as to carry out the work better.

In the face of what we want to do, we must be persistent and flexible. We must learn to protect our own interests and push away from matters that are irrelevant to ourselves.

And be kind and avoid hurting others.

We often exclaim "social injustice and villains are in charge of the road". Have we ever thought about the interpersonal tension caused by our overly fortitude?

If so, is it necessary for us to change it and be a "smooth and honest person"?