(1) keep the true colors, not acting.

The inner quality is the most precious.

A person who really knows how to get along with others will never give up his inner qualities due to changes in circumstances or objects, blindly cater to and follow others.

To maintain a true self is not to make oneself incompatible with others or to be unconventional or even to know that they are wrong or have some bad habits and stubborn, but to maintain their distinctive and healthy personality from others.

Those who have personalities also have some charisma.

(2) don't pretend to be ignorant.

Those who pretend to know things are boring, especially those with elders and knowledgeable people.

We should not be ashamed of what we do not know or learn, even in front of our peers.

The reason for speaking difficulties in front of elders is that it is difficult to find common topics.

Rather than that, when the other person said something he did not know, he would ask the teacher honestly and honestly, "then, please consult me."

(3) do not hide their defects.

First of all, sincerity is embodied in external image. Proper concealing is feasible, but excessive concealing is counterproductive.

If you care too much, you will inevitably fall into the abyss of inferiority.

Men with short stature may feel ridiculous if they wear a pair of extra high heels with a pad.

If a woman with dark skin is covered with a thick layer of white powder, it will create a vulgar impression.

It's the best way to forget your flaws, see your strengths, cultivate your interests and hobbies, and focus your energies on more meaningful activities.

(4) don't deny your fault.

Some people know clearly that they are wrong, but they do not want to acknowledge their accounts. They even argue for themselves, so that the contradictions can not be resolved, the barriers between them can not be eliminated, and the interaction between them is not enough. It also makes people feel that they are unreasonable and like a rascal.

Who can't be a saint?

If you are wrong, admit it very quickly and enthusiastically.

The friendship you get will give you extra satisfaction.

(5) expressing genuine skills.

(1) sincere eyes.

Be open and water, calmly watch, do not hide or look down and dare not look straight ahead.

(2) sincere manners.

Natural, generous, leisurely and unhurried.

Sincere smile.

Like a warm sunshine, full of warmth.

A smile without a smile and a smile on purpose is lacking sincerity.

(4) sincere compliments.

Praise others from the heart, is the language of the soul, otherwise it belongs to the category of flattery.

Sincere handshake.

Whether the handshake is sincere depends on the weight of the handshake.

Too much grip may mean expressing enthusiasm or seeking something.

If you hold it too lightly, you will seem to despise the other person, or you may have a serious inferiority complex.

The right handshake is to stretch out the right hand with generous hands and fingers.